I've abandoned my blog for almost 1 month now..
Shouldn't have let this happen but I seriously don't have the mood to blog..
I'm suppose to sleep now... Haha..
Today exam was.. [highlight..backspace..]..
Oopss..
Suddenly rmb about 24 hour rule..
So I've this thought in mind..
I've chat with my neighbour ytd morning while hanging my clothes at the balcony..
We somehow get into the topic of "How to teach a child in this generation"
Well.. She told me how she would teach her children in the past and in the present and how she would teach her grandchildren and also how her children will teach her grandchildren..
Summary of what she said..
1. She should follow current trend of teaching..
i. No forcing
ii. No canning and beating
(I think this somehow can be called as the Western way of teaching)
2. Not to force but just to advise..
i. She used to scold her children for not visiting their relatives
(As expected, her children don't have the time to do so, they're too busy at work..
She add-on, another reason is that their relatives stay far apart.. It would be very troublesome for them to visit all the time.. It's not like the past whereby everyone lives in the same area/village anymore..)
Her daughter way of teaching her grandchildren..(Awesome mama..)
1. Let your child do what she want as long as it doesn't harm her in the future so to let her learn from mistake.. (Risky but I like)
i. She bother about her children's education silently..
Saying that if you study, look at your grade; if you don't study, look at your grade..
I know I'll do this to my children as well but of course we've to know their standard of mentality..
We also talk about how youngster nowadays dress.. Haha..
Telling me that they dress in such a way just for the sake of gaining peoples attention..
Hmm.. Well.. I don't really agree on that..
Ok.. I'm not sure but maybe it's true that some of them do wear baby size clothing or tonnes and tonnes of accessory to gain attention..
But for the others,
It's their passion..
It's their interest..
It comes from their true heart..
Like in the case of cosplay,
some do show a lot but that's how the character wears..
They like the character and starts to mimic them..
Can we say that's wrong??
I think I manage to change a bit of her thoughts..
Adding she also tells me that how she used to be so stubborn that she will die-heartedly follow the old way of teaching..
Forcing..
Scolding..
(In the case of scolding her children for unable to often visit relatives house)
All of these changes when she joined Christian where she learn about the principium of life.. She start to accept the new trend..
This is also the reason why I try to learn principles from as many religion as I can but not joining the particular religion..
I'm not insulting any religion but just for the sake of knowledge, I'll do..
I'll accept anything I think is right and ignore anything that I think is wrong..
I ought to learn more..
But I can't remember everything larrr..
I'm a normal human.. Haha..
Borrowing knowledge of reality from all sources, taking the best from every study, Science of Mind brings together the highest enlightenment of the ages.
- Ernest Holmes
Today exam was.. [highlight..backspace..]..
Oopss..
Suddenly rmb about 24 hour rule..
So I've this thought in mind..
I've chat with my neighbour ytd morning while hanging my clothes at the balcony..
We somehow get into the topic of "How to teach a child in this generation"
Well.. She told me how she would teach her children in the past and in the present and how she would teach her grandchildren and also how her children will teach her grandchildren..
Summary of what she said..
1. She should follow current trend of teaching..
i. No forcing
ii. No canning and beating
(I think this somehow can be called as the Western way of teaching)
2. Not to force but just to advise..
i. She used to scold her children for not visiting their relatives
(As expected, her children don't have the time to do so, they're too busy at work..
She add-on, another reason is that their relatives stay far apart.. It would be very troublesome for them to visit all the time.. It's not like the past whereby everyone lives in the same area/village anymore..)
Her daughter way of teaching her grandchildren..(Awesome mama..)
1. Let your child do what she want as long as it doesn't harm her in the future so to let her learn from mistake.. (Risky but I like)
i. She bother about her children's education silently..
Saying that if you study, look at your grade; if you don't study, look at your grade..
I know I'll do this to my children as well but of course we've to know their standard of mentality..
We also talk about how youngster nowadays dress.. Haha..
Telling me that they dress in such a way just for the sake of gaining peoples attention..
Hmm.. Well.. I don't really agree on that..
Ok.. I'm not sure but maybe it's true that some of them do wear baby size clothing or tonnes and tonnes of accessory to gain attention..
But for the others,
It's their passion..
It's their interest..
It comes from their true heart..
Like in the case of cosplay,
some do show a lot but that's how the character wears..
They like the character and starts to mimic them..
Can we say that's wrong??
I think I manage to change a bit of her thoughts..
Adding she also tells me that how she used to be so stubborn that she will die-heartedly follow the old way of teaching..
Forcing..
Scolding..
(In the case of scolding her children for unable to often visit relatives house)
All of these changes when she joined Christian where she learn about the principium of life.. She start to accept the new trend..
This is also the reason why I try to learn principles from as many religion as I can but not joining the particular religion..
I'm not insulting any religion but just for the sake of knowledge, I'll do..
I'll accept anything I think is right and ignore anything that I think is wrong..
I ought to learn more..
But I can't remember everything larrr..
I'm a normal human.. Haha..
Borrowing knowledge of reality from all sources, taking the best from every study, Science of Mind brings together the highest enlightenment of the ages.
- Ernest Holmes
Cheers,
Wai Wai
